By Anonymous There's a saying that goes, "The best plan is to profit by the folly of others." That's what this article is about.I want to share with you a few things I've learned -- the hard way -- concerning girls and relationships.That's something you won't see on TV or in the movies, but it happens a lot. The "love hangover" was a strange occurrence for me.

It's like no one wants to acknowledge that it's happening, even though it is. Because we'll go into the marriage with me having more respect for her and her having more trust in me.

One thing I've learned: if a girl doesn't trust a guy, she doesn't want to give herself wholly to him.

And while something inside her is telling her it's the right thing to do, something inside the guy is telling him just the opposite, yet he proceeds. For the physical pleasure no doubt, but also, I think, for another reason: it makes him feel like a man.

But there is a great irony in that, for what is manly about deceiving a woman?

For me, two things happened once I had sex with a girl.

As I look back on it, I can say that they happened literally every time, although I was unaware of these dynamics at the time.Specifically, I've jotted down ten reasons why I'm now waiting until marriage to have sex.When I was in college, I remember having an experience that I referred to as a "love hangover." After being with a girl, the next morning I always felt an emptiness.In fact, I might even like to punch myself in the nose for it. For example, I had a college sweetheart, the girl of my dreams. We totally "clicked." We waited for awhile, then, through my initiation, we started having sex. I stopped wanting to get to know her on any other level.And so it goes without saying that when I get married, I'm not going to like the idea that someone else has had his way with my wife. Do you like the idea of someone else being with your wife? And so, instead of growing closer together, we actually started drifting apart.I've seen this happen with countless relationships, not just others of my own, but those of many other people.